BBBW?

BBBW is short for big beautiful black woman which is what I am! There are a lot of bbbw admirers out there!

What Is My Cup Size?

I have been asked a lot of weird questions before and here is an example of one of them!

Just in case you're curious my bra cup size is DD! I have lost a little weight and it has dropped from DDD to DD!

My Love Life?

well its kind of non-existent for now - LOL! Right now I'm concentrating on my work and my career - although it would be nice to have someone to snuggle up with - LOL!

I'm Having Problems With My Blog!

I don't know what it is but my blog doesn't look quite right when I'm using AOL's browser! It looks just fine when I use a different browser so I don't know what is up!

The Most Memorable Screen Kisses?

Here's an online article about the best and worst screen kisses! Most Memorable Screen Kisses!.

Adsense

I really wish that I could add Adsense ads to this blog! I have them on my other blog but Adsense has rules against having ads on sites with "mature" subject themes. Hasn't deterred me though because I really want to keep this blog! We all have different sides to us and that is what THIS blog is for. I'd still like to thank Adsense ads to this blog! I have them on The Adsense Consultant for letting me know about the Adsense Program.

Sexy Music!

I have added a little podcast button here on my blog. I did it because I was visiting another blog site and heard this absolutely gorgeous song! It's rare that a song will put me in the mood but when I heard THIS song - it definitely put me in the mood! This song filled my head with thoughts of sex and sexy movements so I decided to add it here to see what the rest of you thought about it! So if you would like to listen to the song, press the "play" button and let me know what you think of it. The name of the song is called "Forever Tonight" and it is sung by an artist named Briana.

How To Live Your Fantasies

I have a Squidoo site called" "How To Live Your Fantasies" I have to say that I'm quite new to Squidoo But I do like romantic things and I must say that some of the items featured look very interesting. I'm still very new to Squidoo and I'm still learning my way around. I hope to build up my Squidoo site so that it is larger and contains more content.

The 25 Best Movie Sex Scenes?

Here is a link to what is supposed to be a list of the 25 Best Movie Sex Scenes: http://movies.aol.com/movie-photo/best-sex-scenes Personally I couldn't get to the website myself so if you get a chance to look at it let me know whats on it - and of course whether or not you agree with the list.

I got a chance to look at the list. Some of the movies listed I haven't seen and I don't want to spoil it for you if you haven't seen the list yet so I'll just give you a "taste" of whzt's on the list.

The Big Easy - I thought that movie sex scene was hot!

Adding Some Pictures Of Me?

Well I want to add a picture to my profile and so far this is one of the ones that I have so far. I have to work on making a few others so that I can add them here.

Yuck! Someone Was Flirting With Me!

Ever go out somewhere and you're kind of in a rush and you know that you don't look your best? You figure no one is going to mess with you right? Well it turned out to be wrong on this particular day. I was outside waiting for a ride and a man who was working on someone's house saw me and wanted me to come over to talk to him. I figured he wondered what I was doing just standing out there and I was going to explain to him that I was waiting for a ride. Well that wasn't what he wanted to talk to me about. He was telling me how "attractive" I looked standing there and he said he liked my breasts! Well I have to admit that if there is one thing about me that is noticeable it is that I am definitely NOT flat-chested! Now I wasn't wearing anything provocative but it was hot outside but I was just wearing a simple, short sleeve blouse. Now the blouse was kind of clingy because it was made out of some kind of knit material but I did not "feel" attractive at all - much less thinking that I looked attractive! Well he proceeded to tell me how "nice" I looked and if I ever needed any work done that maybe we could come to some kind of "arangement". Well I just did not feel that I was even "attractive" enough to be even having this kind of conversation and really the whole thing was turning me off. It could have also been that I was just in a "pissy" mood because it was so hot outside and my ride hadn't come yet. But this was not the kind of conversation that I wanted to be having. He was an older man and had a little bit of an accent. I tried to politely get away from him and thank goodness my ride came. But "yuck" all the same. Not because of the man really - its just that I wasn't in the mood. Now probably when I AM in the mood no one will flirt with me!

The Philadelphia Area - Danger, Danger!

Philly's Dangers

A very interesting blog post from someone that is a MySpace member. While I have heard a lot about Myspace I really don't want to join because I'm a member of so much now and its hard keeping track of everything now. But since I'm not a member I can't post a comment to the blog so I added a link to it here. I really don't know what to say about this because since I was born and raised in Philly I'm kind of like an insider looking out. It's very hard to change people and let's face it some people are down right scared.

I Am My Own Worst Enemy!

I have seen this appear a couple of times in my horoscope and I would have to agree with it. I can conjure up all sorts of things in my mind - both good and bad - but for the most part they are mainly bad. I think of the most worst situations and in reality they hardly ever come to pass. Why can't I just think positively? I do try to do that but its like there is this constant battle between the good thoughts and the bad thoughts - with the bad thoughts usually winning. I definitely have to work on this more!

"Love Actually"

Love Actually

I just recently saw this movie the other day. I am a sucker for romantic movies and I'm more of a sucker for accents! They just drive me crazy! This movie has a whole lot of storylines - 8, I think to be exact - about love. The movie also has Alan Rickman - in a nice casual kind of role where he's not the bad guy (almost), Colin Firth who is just gorgeous! and it has Hugh Grant in a role where he is not playing a cad! It also has great looking (and nice-bodied) Liam Neeson - all gorgeous guys! I was probably watching the movie mostly because of the men! But I got that the meaning of the movie (and it said so in the opening scene) is that Love is Actually All Around!

Heat!

About the only kind of heat that I like is the heat of passion (-; The weather is getting so much warmer now and I'm thinking about my hair and I'm thinking about sweating! I hate when I sweat! When the weather gets hot and humid I sweat even more! Sometimes I think that I sweat more because I worry about sweating more! There's this old comedic joke about how black people hate hot weather and I know that this black person hates the hot weather! I'm more of a fall/autumn, wearing a jacket kind of girl. So as the weather is getting warmer and more hotter and more humid I must find ways to keep myself cool!

I Was Supposed To Wash My Hair Today

Had a lot of other stuff to do today so I really didn't get around to doing it. Sometimes I just dread it and put it off as much as I could. But you know what happens when you don't wash your hair? It starts to itch and then it starts to itch real bad! And since I got this "not too happy with it" perm I'm hoping the perm I gave myself will fare better after I wash it! What kind of shampoo do I use? Pantene! It's one of the most expensive shampoos there is but I like the way it smells and it just makes my hair feel clean! When I don't have enough money to buy the Pantene I resort to the Johnson's Baby Shampoo that I can usually get for around 99 cents! But if I can manage it I buy the Pantene which should last me about a month and a half. But for now I have the Pantene - now I just have to wash my hair!

The Hair Thing

Well this wasn't one of my better perms but I'm stuck with it for the next three months. I shouldn't have bought the one on sale. Instead I should have gotten the one that I alwyas do! Well like they say "that's just the way it goes". At least my hair is sweating out with the hot weather so I should be very grateful for that! I have never been one for wearing wigs. They are so hot and even more so in the warmer weather. For now I'll just usually wear my hair in a ponytail or just put on a cap and be on my way! Hope nothing fancy comes up because I don't know what I'll do with my hair then!

A Hairy Subject

I don't like the way my hair sweats out during the warm weather so I perm it. I do it myself as opposed to getting it done because number 1 it'st cheaper and number 2 I just can't sit still. When I do it myself I can do other things besides. If you're not familiar with this process, perming my hair makes it straighter and more manageable so manageable in fact that I can just get out of bed and have the most gorgeous looking hair without having to do anything to it. Plus I can just put it in a pony tail to have a decent-looking hairstyle. I permed my hair today mostly because I have to go to a funeral and I know that its going to be hot. This perm will last me three months so I won't have to worry about it for a while. I have been doing this for many years now and I like the results that I get. I don't go in too much for the "newest" and latest hairstyles because I like the one that I have. I thought about getting a weave but so far I just don't want to go through the hassle and since I never had one before I don't know anything about how to maintain it. The whole process takes me about three hours but the results are worth it and like I said once it's done I don't have to worry too much about my hair for the next 3 months! I'm mostly a tomboy at heart but you should have seen me today with my blow dryer and hot comb. The only time I even use the hair dryer is when I perm my hair. It does make me feel "girly" though - (-; and I think the men like the results too!

You're Never Too Old To Have A Relationship!

In the past 2 days I have had conversations with people who have said that they don't think that they will ever have a relationship with someone. In one of the conversations the person tried to convince me of the same thing but I wouldn't hear none of it.

Personally I believe that one is never too old to have a relationship. People marry at all kinds of different ages! There's nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone you like and who just makes you feel good but you haven't found them yet. That doesn't mean that they aren't out there. It just means that you haven't found them yet.

I'm glad that I haven't given up on the notion of me being able to have a relationship just because I'm a certain age. If other people want to believe that then so be it! (But I know that it's not true).

If you're going to be down on yourself and constantly put yourself down, how will you expect anyone to like you?

More on the controversy surrounding Don Imus

Here is a link to an article where Snoop Dog was interviewed about calling women derogatory names in rap music

http://www.aolsportsblog.com/2007/04/12/snoop-dogg-dont-compare-me-to-don-imus/

Judge for yourself and leave a comment if you're so inclined